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this is the most horrific and awful truth i have forced myself to accept: there may come a day you can no longer digest your favorite foods, and you will either have to stop eating them, or remain very close to a toilet.

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when i was teaching myself how to cook and feeling daunted about it, the best advice i ever got was to aim to learn 15 recipes and then put them in rotation.

and yes, it is always worth it to do the dishes as you go, which pisses me off. get your shit out and organized and prepped *before* you start cooking, even if it makes things take longer. speaking of food part 2, i can’t BELIEVE how long this took me to figure out, but mise en place is the real real.for years i thought i was an awful cook because i was cooking with cheap, disgusting olive oil that made my food taste like shit.

personally i’ve found it’s always worth it to splurge on good olive oil, butter, and canned tomatoes.

speaking of food, not everything you buy should be the cheapest version of it.

the sooner you accept this and make food a priority in your life, the healthier you’ll be.

food, and by that i mean good food (and by that i don’t necessarily mean healthy food, but food of good quality that you love), is necessary to live, and buying it, preparing it, and eating it is not a chore.

signed, a woman with a packed 10x10 storage unit who is now extremely hesitant to buy new things. maybe other people don’t struggle with this as much as i do, but i’ve grown to become a little exhausted by finding a thing and realizing i don’t want it anymore, but i don’t have the energy or motivation to do anything with it.

whenever you buy an object, you are going to own that object for your entire life unless you make the conscious decision to throw it away or give it a new home.

so here are 33 hard-won things i’ve learned that i wish someone had told me sooner. Today is my birthday! i’m 33 today and i have done an ungodly amount of stupid shit in my life that honestly probably should have gotten me killed. YES!!! YES!!! THANK YOU OP!!!! I just think that people change so much throughout their lives and have such an endless capacity to love in a myriad of different ways and no love is lesser for there being another like it now or in the past or in the future i want to kiss this post square on the lips 'I have loved like this before, and I'm choosing to fight for it this time' is surely not a lost cause to explore. A character can leave behind a great love and find a new great love, and while love is never quite The Same between people, it can be As Much.Īnd I guess I'm wondering, you know, how it is better, to love wholly only once? 'It was never like this with the other person' is surely meant to be a soft sentiment declaring how much greater this love is, but, all it does is make me wonder what is so weak about it that if there was an equal love, this love wouldn't survive it, wouldn't be chosen. Love doesn't have to be less or gone to recognize that maintaining a relationship for it is unsustainable. The circumstances were wrong, the people were wrong despite their love, it was everything and that wasn't enough. but that it didn't change anything, couldn't work out.

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Not that the love was missing or less, but that it was there, that it was whole and full and real, that it mattered. Why can't the character have felt that way before? Why can't they have loved someone with their whole heart before? It's the tragedy of love isn't it- that sometimes it doesn't work. I guess I'm just asking, what are we afraid of? I'm not saying that one true love is a bad trope. It's couched in gentler, loving phrases like 'he's never felt this way before' and 'it wasn't like this with anyone else.' It's especially prevalent when there is a canon love interest to be denied, or a mutually exclusive ship to push back against, and it feels like trying to quietly dismiss a contrived love triangle instead of recognizing that different loves can share intensity and one might still not work out.Īnd I'm not saying it's bad, I'm not saying it's problematic or amoral or something that needs to stop, that people shouldn't be doing this. pervasive idea that people cannot love wholly twice, and that if they've chosen one person, it's because that love is greater than the other.

Something I've come across often in reading fanfiction is this.